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I'm sick of living in this close-minded town, I've no desire to be a wage-slave, it is beyond me why we must pay for our existence on this Earth, and I wish to be nomadic... to go where the wind takes me... to live with the Earth... to meet similiar people... and to learn to love every moment as it comes... without relying on money, modern comforts, and so on.
I've got the theory down... but I have yet to put action to the theory and this where I need much help. A few people I know are ready for leaving this area just as I am, and we have much desire to go out West, but the question keeps coming up of how we'll get by, how we'll eat, how we'll travel, where we will stay, and how we will meet with people. I've tried finding people to travel with, tried finding people to squat with, tried to find people to meet up for the experience of life... and I have had little to no luck. I wish to pack up and leave... but I need advice... and I need guidance. Is anyone willing to help me in any way possible? Even the smallest of advice is appreciated greatly.
I've got the theory down... but I have yet to put action to the theory and this where I need much help. A few people I know are ready for leaving this area just as I am, and we have much desire to go out West, but the question keeps coming up of how we'll get by, how we'll eat, how we'll travel, where we will stay, and how we will meet with people. I've tried finding people to travel with, tried finding people to squat with, tried to find people to meet up for the experience of life... and I have had little to no luck. I wish to pack up and leave... but I need advice... and I need guidance. Is anyone willing to help me in any way possible? Even the smallest of advice is appreciated greatly.
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Re: Oh... to be a woman of the wind.
Sun, February 12, 2006 - 5:30 PMmy advice, given from experience, is just go! part of the jouney of being a nomad is a sense of groundlessness-not knowing if you'll meet people, not knowing if you'll eat. i would suggest you read up on this to see if it's really for you. it sounds like you need stability and predictability, and if that's true, this lifestyle may not be for you. here is a website that may help you. best of luck!
www.carliving.com/intro_ready.html
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Re: Oh... to be a woman of the wind.
Sun, February 12, 2006 - 6:27 PMWhen you just take that step you will be amazed at how much abundance is out there. Are you wiling to eat out of garbage cans? Are you able to talk to people? Are you able to open your mind up and see opportunities? Are you willing to take risks? Are you a creative thinker? I just left.... I was thrilled with what I found. I have had some scary times but nothing compared to the good times. Nomadic life restores my faith in humanity. If you want it planned out I would recommend a travel agent, otherwise just GO for it! -
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Re: Oh... to be a woman of the wind.
Sun, February 12, 2006 - 7:06 PMYes to all of the above. No way do I want it planned by a travel agent... I just need to meet up with some people for the cause.
Where did you leave to? I'd love it if you were to message me about some of your experiences. I need all of the stories I can get. It'd help to show those that wish to leave as well that you can only prepare yourself so much before you just have to take the risk and go for it.
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Re: Oh... to be a woman of the wind.
Sun, February 12, 2006 - 7:02 PMSee, I would just get up and go (as I have had the desire to do for quite some time now), but I have to be realistic in the sense that I am a female and to get up and go around the country by myself isn't exactly the best idea. I wish it were safe.
The main reason I need to make sure we'll meet with people is because we are not leaving only for the sake of being nomadic, but for the sake of unity, and meeting like minds so we don't stand silent in a crumbling system. The reason we would also need to make sure we have food is because not everyone is completely comfortable with just roughing it.
I haven't needed stability or predictability for a while... it actually goes against my personal philosophies, but those around me aren't as comfortable.
I do thank you very much for the website and I thank you for the luck!
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Sun, February 12, 2006 - 6:27 PM
Danielle,
I know what you mean, exactly ... rivers of nomadic tendencies also run within me, though they've ebbed a bit lately, as i'm fairly content in the general area i'm in.
However -- and I don't mean to sound harsh, just realistic -- the romance of being a nomad is matched, if not exceeded, by the reality. Yes, it _is_ wonderful to go with the wind, to not be bound by the ties (some pleasant, some not) that hold us to a particular place. It's not quite as wonderful to be starving, or in the middle of a vast plain with no shelter during a snowstorm, or not having showered or cleaned yourself for days. It's great to see new places, explore new cultures and relish in the diversity of humanity and this world. It's not so great to be trapped -- yes, trapped -- somewhere you've landed because you don't have the resources to leave.
Like all endeavors, being a nomad has it's positives and negatives. I'm not saying it's not for you -- i'm just saying that there are a lot of moments that you may love, and a lot that you may not. If you're travelling with others, that will help in some ways (more resources -- because the ability to think rationally is as much, if not more, of a resource than money) but it will also come with a downside -- being a nomad will bring out facets of people's personalities that you may not be comfy with. A lot of this stuff you can't plan for, but you need to be ready when it hits, if you're going to do this.
Regards,
John
Falling You - exploring the beauty of voice and sound
www.fallingyou.com
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Sun, February 12, 2006 - 7:10 PMAh, you see, it is the romanticism of being nomadic that has had quite a few people I knew become absorbed in the idea of being nomadic, but when the reality of everything they would have to give up or face came into play, they dropped from the list one-by-one.
I don't believe that life is supposed to be a bowl of cherries everyday and I do not find it fair that our food is given to us the way it is, that we use cars instead of our legs, and when we work for our meals or our housing, we end up working for processed foods and toxic structures. Ah, I'm well aware there will be many difficulties, but I welcome them with open arms. I'm aware that there may be times where I will have no money or no means to get out of a situation or a place.
I do thank you for the concern, though. I'm more worried about the travel partners finding those factors to be unsettling. It seems that I cannot find someone who is just willing to get up and go. You can only plan so much for these events. Care to send me any stories concerning your adventures? -
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Sun, February 12, 2006 - 8:35 PM
Daniele,
Well, you'll definitely discover things about yourself, the world around you, and how you relate to it. Experience is a wonderful teacher, not to mention a source of many memories that will stay with you and [grace | haunt] you for years. You may visit places that make you realize how bad your town is, and you may visit places that make you realize it's not so bad after all :-)
There is an organization that can help: www.couchsurfing.com. It's made up of a network of people who love to travel and see new places, as well as people who are interested in hosting said traveler for a time. If you're concerned about safety (and that's a very valid concern), then limit your search to verified level 3 (or above) members only. This at least verifies that they live where they say they live.
Regards,
John, who was a level 3 member until this evening, when I updated my address (setting me back to level 2 until the verification letter arrives and I respond to it)
Falling You - exploring the beauty of voice and sound
www.fallingyou.com
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Re: Oh... to be a woman of the wind.
Mon, February 13, 2006 - 5:31 AMmaybe i shouldn't suggest this, but maybe you should come to san francisco. there is a big community of homeless young people who hang out on the haight. maybe they could serve as your 'community'. i myself don't and have never had a 'community' other than the people i meet in the international scene along the way, but i'm a loner.
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Sat, April 15, 2006 - 7:46 PMDaniele,
I have been traveling for a good few years. The best advice is pack it up and go. Sooner or later you will find the path you like.
When i moved around i worked at Hostels and campgrounds, just a few hours of work each day in exchange for room and board. There is info at www.hostels.com
If you want to stick around Florida try crewing on boats in FTL or Miami.
If i can be of any help let me know.
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Re: Oh... to be a woman of the wind.
Mon, February 13, 2006 - 3:07 PMYou're getting this advice here already but: just go. It won't be all shits and giggles. Terrible things might happen, wonderful things definitely will, but it's all theory until you know. I'm not exactly sure how old you are, and I'm not exactly a nomad, but when it comes to making changes in my life and moving about I always ask: is it possible to come back here and regain THIS? The answer usually seems to be yes. But meanwhile the clock is ticking. Go if have to know!
Bluesmen were often travellers, and you can hear those rhythms in the music. Part of the hardtimes were the hardtimes everywhere, part of it was exageration to make themselves feel better by making others feel worse, and part of those authentic blues were hard times of the road. But with the sorrow you can sense the freedom, can't you? That constant rhythm of one foot in front othe other.
In practical terms: a good first trip is going to see some friend of adequate distance from you. Pick the friend, pick the route, go. But be flexible, and don't overstay your welcome when you get there. I should say IF you get there, but you'll definitnely get somewhere. You learn a lot about yourself and a lot about human nature while your travelling. Some lessons have to be re-learned over and again. Some things other travellers won't share with you because they are too horrible to relate, other things are too wonderful to really describe, capture in words. But if the wind is calling you, how can you refuse? How can you silence/ignore the wind? Sure it will pass in time, and no one ever knows exactly where the wind goes, but those who don't even try and follow have no clue at all- -
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Mon, February 13, 2006 - 9:14 PM
Chilly,
I'm in complete agreement regarding the relationship between nomadic behavior and sorrow -- the later is a big part of the former. I remember being hospitalized a few years ago for food poisoning, and being in the hospital, IV in arm, knowing full well that everyone who has ever loved me is 2500 miles away and cannot comfort me ... that, my friend, is what being a nomad (and in many ways, an adult) is like. That was a very sad time, but i'm glad I went through it -- I discovered some things about myself, the biggest were probably that a.) I am responsible for my own path through this world, and while this path is sometimes (though certainly not always) a solemn one, it is mine, b.) I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself, my floppy-eared best friend, and anyone else I choose to, should I make that choice, and c.) I am responsible for my own emotional state, as are each of us.
In other words, i'm growing up ... and while there exist people who have contempt of me for it, people who say that I had no business ever leaving family, people who call me selfish / arrogant / uncaring and cold for making my own way apart from them ... I made my choice, i'm a much better human being than I was then, and in hindsight, would make the same choice again.
Regards,
John
Falling You - exploring the beauty of voice and sound
www.fallingyou.com
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Sat, April 22, 2006 - 7:38 AMOne sure way NOT to go is to wait around on your friends. There will always be excuses why they can't leave just yet.
I would *strongly* recommend that you travel with some resources, just in case. And yes, this is primarily because you are female. The average time a homeless woman spends on the streets before being raped is... three months. So having the resources to at least grab a room at the closest hostel, or a tent you can set up at a state campground (and the $5-10 they might charge) would just be prudent. Calling ahead and being willing to do work-trade is another possibility. Or you could just show up, pay for your first night or two, and try to arrange work-trade to extend your stay. Be daring, be adventurous, but be smart!
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Sat, April 22, 2006 - 8:27 AMI had a big dog! I had three situations that felt dangerous in my street times but all were avoided thanks to my dog. I often travelled in packs too and that helped although at first that wasn't an option. Have a secret emergency stash of money that no one knows about... I always had fifty bucks "just in case" although I never had to use it.
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Great post from dumpster diving tribe
Sat, April 22, 2006 - 11:02 AM
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Willing Workers On Organic Farms
Sat, April 22, 2006 - 11:06 AMAnother great way to travel cheap, meet beautiful people, and stay relatively safe is WWOOF - Willing Workers on Organic Farms.
www.wwoof.org/home.asp
and for here in the U.S., Organic Volunteers:
www.organicvolunteers.com/
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Sat, June 16, 2007 - 10:31 PMI, too, share your longing and fantasy of the nomadic ancient ways. Try www.wwoof.org/ and http;//www.globalfreeloaders.com . Best of luck.! I, myself, am headed towards New Zealand soon.
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Sun, June 17, 2007 - 2:30 AMI just went - four years ago - with 300$ in my pocket - and I am still going... it is the wind that carries you - you can't force the wind - you need to trust it and relax and you will be amazed... be beyond hope and fear and experience the beauty of each situation - - - I even lived in a tend for three months, squatting a abandoned garden - or in a caravan - without electricity and running water... this might sound not appealing for some ... but I learned a great deal... as I discovered that it is our own attitude which makes a situation rich or poor... and it is our presence and awareness in the very moment rather than careful planning which makes things happen.... -
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Tue, June 19, 2007 - 7:35 PMgo go go.
The other travelers are beacons that you will meet along the way. The longer you wait, the more entrenched the Fear will become. Sure, you envision being a woman traveling alone... but don't let the fear get ya. You got the choice of letting your hopes or your fears dictate your reality... which do you choose?
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